Monday, June 28, 2010

This is How Beyoncé Must Feel

The days and nights are flying by. Even though it has only been 3 weeks I fell like I have lived here for years. The temperature has dropped to a cool and breezy 90 degrees which is a much needed reprieve. In the morning I get up around 5 am to go jogging for a few miles before the sun rises. On my way, women balance buckets of water and pounds of firewood on their heads swaying to and fro gracefully. I can barely place my foot in front of the other without stumbling over a rock but they seems to have the path memorized.

Family life is progressing without a hitch. My family has embraced me as one of their own and find any possible reason to bring up my African lineage. My father is convinced that I am his long lost niece and that my ancestors were from Togo…. I guess it’s not too far fetched of an idea. He calls me Ms. California because I only eat 2 plates of food instead of 3 or 4 so he says that I must be on a “regime” (diet) lol!

I have also become very popular on my side of town and now all of the kids know my name and they do not hesitate to scream out ASHALAY!!! At the top of their lungs. Every morning and everynight I am greated by 40 children and their parents who get so much pleasure from shouting my name, touching my hands, giving me hugs, and hearng me say “good morning” back. This is how Beyoncé must feel everyday! I haven’t decided if I like it but it sure beats being called YOVO!

My French is getting much better. I am able to follow conversations and respond accordingly. One negative aspect of this is that I feel like my English is quickly diminishing. Since I am getting used to talking at such a basic level in French I am starting to talk that way in English. Even writing this blog entry has proven difficult as I am having trouble expressing myself as I would normally. I guess that’s what happens when you take 4 hours of French a day and only speak French at home. Next week I start local language classes and will be learning to speak Ewe! I’m so excited but a little nervous as well.

I get to the internet café about twice a week so send me emails and pictures, I’d love to hear from you!


A

11 comments:

  1. 3 weeks already! Sheesh! Im glad you're adjusting and I love the fact you're popular over there! Love you Ashalay!

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  2. idk why this one made me emotional! I don't want ur English to diminish Ashalay! LOL
    For real though it's good to hear from you. I check everyday looking forward to new posts.
    Oh and not only are u feeling famous like Bey, but running everyday at 5 u gon mess around and come back with a Bey body too! LOL
    Love you,
    - K

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  3. Hey honey!!
    I'm glad everything is going well. There is no better way to learn a language then to be fully immersed in it! You are really motivating me to come visit you. This experience is sooo exciting and I'm soooo happy for you! Can't wait to hear more...

    P.S. You know you've always been a star!

    xoxoxo
    ~Jennie

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  4. Hey ladies! Love the messages!

    @ Miaela: Thanks for the support hunny!

    @ Kay: Girl I was thinking the same thing, but my running is only balancing out the ridiculous amount of food I am consuming lol!

    @Jennie: Hey girl! Thanks so much for the message and I hope that one day you can come visit me. Start saving now and I found a way to get some affordable flights through the Moroccan airline. I'll keep you posted.

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  5. I'm so proud of you. You inspire me to give back. You have an opp of a lifetime. Be epic, for your presence there is dynamic. I love you

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  6. ASH!!!! I found you!! I'm beyond proud of you and yet inspired. What a wonderful experience! I am happy to know you are with a great family and enjoying your experience so far! I can't believe it has been 3 weeks already...WOW!
    God is soooooooo good! May he continue to bless you and continue to bring you JOY!
    Kids are wonderful!!! You described it perfectly, there is nothing more rewarding then when a child's face glows when they see you and embrace you with a hug! That is an AWESOME feeling!
    I love you!

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  7. Ash, I am so glad you are doing well! I think of you often and if there is anyone that can embrace a new country/life, it is you.

    I love the updates! Keep them coming!!!

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  8. Happy 25th Birthday Ashley!!! I hope you enjoy your day over there!

    -Miaela

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  9. Happy belated! What did you do??

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  10. I hope you had a wonderful 25th Birthday! Your blog is wonderful...please keep writing.

    Wishing you all the best :-),

    Sally

    P.S. I have to agree with Kendra on the Bey body... You're going to come back looking diesel!

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  11. hey lady, i'm glad to hear all is well. keep up the updates! (happy belated btw)

    peace.
    a.

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